This guy from my past, ‘K’ found me on facebook. We chatted a bit. Later on that week he im-ed me again. This time he told me he remembered the first time he saw me, and that he has always had a thing for cute red-heads.
After my stomach stopped turning over I decided that any relationship with this guy was a bad idea. He is divorced, with a pre-teen. I am married, yes, married. With a five year old. My husband could probably kick his ass, too.
I don’t ‘chat’ with him anymore. He started sending me those hearts. I refused and ignored them. C’mon buddy, take a hint! Yet, on they go.
As a woman, I could analyze his actions, but any male would just tell me, “Brother’s just trying to get ****” They’re probably right. Men understand each other better than most women could. I think it is because they look to the obvious.
If our mildly flirtatious first conversation continued, it probably would have a taken a little while to understand this guy’s intentions are not honorable, but he took it over the line. At that point it would have been wise for me to block him. I think I even had two friends tell me to block him, and I didn’t. But I just did, before I forgot to do so.